We looked at a house today (in Corsicana), and I’m not sure why. We don’t need a new house, and we aren’t looking to move, but we walked through a house today anyway.
The house was big and interesting, and it was on 5 acres of
land. It had a pond on the back of the
land that reminded me of the places that I used to fish at my Pawpaw’s ranch in
Louisiana. We brought the kids to look
at the house too, and they ran all over that land like Melissa Gilbert during the opening credits of Little House on the Prairie.
Who knows what will happen with the house? Like I said, we’re really not in the market
for a new home. This was more like a
field trip than a house hunt, but crazier things have happened, I suppose. Maybe we had a momentary wild hair that
caused us to long for a change of scenery.
Maybe every once in a while we just need to convince ourselves that the
grass isn’t greener, and a good house viewing helps us appreciate what we
already have. Or maybe this is the
initial breeze that will usher in the winds of change. I don’t know, and the house really isn’t the
point.
The point is that there’s a restlessness inside of me that
comes out in some strange ways.
Sometimes it makes me want to look at a new house, and sometimes it
makes me want to look at a new car, and sometimes it makes me want to take a
road trip like the ones I used to take in college, when life was simpler and
there were no responsibilities. Often I’m
so restless that I have trouble sleeping, and there are those occasions when I’m
so restless that I get up at 2 a.m. and write stories about how restless I
am.
I ran into a friend at “Meet the Teacher Night” tonight, and
told him that I was going to come by his office one day and kidnap him and take
him out to this wonderful ranch so that we could fish and enjoy the
wildlife. He told me that it would have
to be a “planned kidnapping.” I thought,
“That’s no fun. What’s the point of
going out to the great wide open if you have to plan it? There’s nothing restless about that!”
So, whether it’s touring a home for the heck of it or
sneaking out to a ranch on an unplanned adventure, my heart is restless. I don’t know whether to be alarmed or excited
by this uneasiness within me. There are
times when I wish it would go away, and there are other times when I cling to
it like guns or religion.
Grant me peace within,
Oh God. Make me content in all things.
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Henry Nouwen
Take my tired body, my confused mind, and my restless soul
into your arms and give me rest, simple quiet rest.
John of the Cross, 1542-91
O blessed Jesus, give me stillness of soul in thee. Let thy
mighty calmness reign in me; Rule me, O King of gentleness, King of peace. Give
me control, great power of self-control, Control over my words, thoughts and
actions. From all irritability, want of meekness, want of gentleness, dear
Lord, deliver me. By thine own deep patience, give me patience. Make me in this
and all things more and more like thee.
